Pof has something similar. You couldn't see without paying. But i dl'd app n the names started popping up as notifications when someone liked. I hear people do not like A list that much and I was wondering if there were any guides on how to see who likes you on either the PC version or. It could be that they found you when browsing quickmatch, but only highly rated / liked your but they wanted to send a signal to see if you 'll respond. Ironically, free users of OkCupid don't see who likes them - just that they've received likes.